What makes you irresistible

There is nothing appealing about pessimistic, downbeat types. We seek them out, invite them to meetings, parties, and coffee. Irresistible humans love to give compliments. They share the credit. They are quick to say a kind word or even help out. Irresistible people want to make life pleasant and positive for everyone. Recently I was at a breakfast full of entrepreneurial women.

The latter group were eager to learn about the people they were meeting. They had open smiles, warm body language, and an inquisitive way about them. I learned later that two of the warmest and most sincerely passionate women within the group also happened to have the most successful businesses, thanks in large part to partnerships with other people like them.

No surprise. There is nothing more isolating or exhausting than trying to project a false sense of strength. Because we all have them. Irresistible people use words with intention. And irresistible people focus on playing up their talents versus complaining about their weaknesses.

Irresistible people make an effort to look presentable. You might even have experienced it yourself—that instant physical chemistry that can be difficult to describe, let alone study. Yet scientists have spent decades researching the mental and physical processes that influence attraction. In fact, humans may be prone to seeing traits that could help ensure survival as sexy, according to some psychologists.

For example, hair tends to become thin and dull in times of sickness, so thick, shiny hair may boost physical attraction. Heterosexual men also tend to favor smaller waist-to-hip ratios in women. Possibly because chronic illnesses like diabetes change fat distribution, making waist-to-hip ratio an indicator of health.

Physical signs of health impress women too, but studies suggest they tend to think about more factors than men when gauging physical attraction.

For example, women may find thick hair appealing, but they also might take signs of stability into consideration. Strive to be a good listener. Giving someone your full attention is a powerful seduction tool. People who smell nice are perceived as more likable.

Studies show that personal grooming matters a great deal. A smile works wonders. In addition to appearing more attractive, research shows a smile makes you look more approachable, fun, and engaging. Complexion counts. A diet rich in fruit and vegetables brightens skin and promotes a healthy appearance. Carrots and tomatoes are natural skin enhancers. Studies show they give a golden glow that is perceived as more attractive than a suntan. If you want to attract the attention of a potential mate, throw on a red dress.

Red lipstick works, too! People who are kind are considered more attractive. This article originally appeared on IvankaTrump. I wish you all the best,. Subscribe to my free newsletter if you want to transform full days into more fulfilling days.